It's just about that time – summer is coming to a close and stores are full of school supplies, which means school is about to start up again. Unfortunately, this year when school starts, you are no longer a close-knit family. Instead, you are going to be starting the school year off as a divorced family. But that's okay. Here are a few tips to help get the school year started off on the right track:
Who Does the School Shopping?
Each year, it always seems like your child grows a foot during the summer, which means a brand new wardrobe. Plus, there are school supplies that need to be purchased every year. But, who does this shopping? One parent is likely paying child support, so does this mean that this parent doesn't do the shopping? Ultimately, you should look at your parenting plan and see if it's outlined in it. If it is not, it is up to you, as parents, to decide who will foot the bill. As a general rule, most parents will simply split it down the middle or base it on their respective incomes.
Who Handles the Paperwork?
At the beginning of each school year, there is a mountain load of paperwork that must be filled out. Which parent fills it out? Ultimately, it will be the parent with primary custody of the child. However, as long as you both communicate with one another, either of you can fill out the paperwork. The most important thing is that all the forms are filled out in their entirety and that both parents' names and contact information are included.
Let the School Know Your Situation.
While it may be a bit embarrassing since the divorce is new, it is very important that you inform the school office as well as your child's teachers about the divorce. The more in the loop that the school is, the better they will be able to assist your child in dealing with the situation. It is also a good idea to consider allowing your child to speak to the school counselor, as you never know when your child may need someone to talk to.
Who Attends School Events?
There are many school events that parents and children need to attend, including open houses and teacher meet and greets. Whenever possible, it is recommended that both parents attend these events and participate in other school-related events. If both of you are unable to be amicable towards one another at this time, then work with the school and your child's teacher to participate at school functions at alternate times whenever possible. This may not always work out for all school events, but it may be an option for some.
When it all comes down to it, the main thing is that both parents communicate with one another and focus on the needs of the child. Contact a local divorce attorney for more information and assistance.
Share11 August 2017
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